joyota210: HI!!!!
MelissaDarling32: HEY
MelissaDarling32: how are you?
joyota210: HOW'RE YOU!!!!
MelissaDarling32: great
joyota210: I'm wonderful!
MelissaDarling32: and u?
MelissaDarling32: that's wonderufl
joyota210: thats cool!
joyota210: how's being un-single feel?
MelissaDarling32: really good
MelissaDarling32: hehe
MelissaDarling32: are you going to bambi as well?
joyota210: yeah we are
MelissaDarling32: do you work that day?
joyota210: friday?
MelissaDarling32: yes
joyota210: yeah until 2:30, but I
might change that
joyota210: how about you?
joyota210: is John with you?
MelissaDarling32: no he's not..because i wanted us all
to stop by john before we go up..he is right off the
express way on our way to bambi off of 75
MelissaDarling32: like right on our way
MelissaDarling32: i left his house around 3 today
joyota210: ooh
joyota210: what're you up to tonight?
MelissaDarling32: nothing
joyota210: Wanna go to starbucks and
the three of us can play
something!?!?!?
MelissaDarling32: play something?
joyota210: maybe sugar? maybe Kuuduk?
MelissaDarling32: sure
joyota210: YAY
MelissaDarling32: when?
joyota210: now if you want
joyota210: is that cool?
MelissaDarling32: yupperz
joyota210: YAY
joyota210: :-D
joyota210: We'll come pick you up in a
few then!!! ok?
MelissaDarling32: sure..
MelissaDarling32: i'm all scrubby though hehe
joyota210: ok see ya soon! who
cares???
MelissaDarling32: hehe
joyota210: I don't, you have nobody to
impress!
MelissaDarling32: no i don't he leaves far away
joyota210: ha ha ha, righty oh!
joyota210: he probably wouldn't if you
looked scrubby anyways! ;-)
MelissaDarling32: no he woulnd't cause i looked like
this with him today
joyota210: ha ha see? ok, we're
leaving!
joyota210: see ya soon
MelissaDarling32: okay!
joyota210: bye
MelissaDarling32 is away at 8:23:23 PM.
MelissaDarling32 returned at 10:18:39 PM.
MelissaDarling32: thanks for such a great evening
joyota210: HI!!!
MelissaDarling32: it was so much fun
joyota210: you're soooo welcome!
MelissaDarling32: you two are the best
joyota210: yes it was!
joyota210: no you two are
joyota210: :-D
MelissaDarling32: hahaha
MelissaDarling32: my mom told me what happened at
the meeting
Auto response from joyota210: Dawn n I are
together chillin...probably doing
our study or just enjoying each
other's company! leave me one if
you want.
MelissaDarling32: OMG
MelissaDarling32: it is disgusting
MelissaDarling32 is away at 11:51:30 PM.
MelissaDarling32 returned at 12:02:17 AM.
joyota210: uuuh ok
MelissaDarling32: hi
joyota210: hi
joyota210: what happened??
MelissaDarling32: they found a video tapes of women
and children in the bathrooms of the church that he was
documenting certain people
MelissaDarling32: and the news will be going out on
this tomororw
MelissaDarling32: and if whoever was on the
videotapes will be notified by the police soon
joyota210: who was doig this?
MelissaDarling32: the janitor guy
MelissaDarling32: who died
joyota210: he was making videotapes of
what?
MelissaDarling32: women and children in the
bathrooms
joyota210: thats so freakin weird!
joyota210: holy cow! thats creepy!
MelissaDarling32: ya that disgusting
joyota210: no kidding!
joyota210: so Melissa, do you mind if
we talk seriously?
MelissaDarling32: sure
MelissaDarling32: what's going on?
joyota210: Well, I'm just curious as
to how you have been dealing with
John not being...a virgin?
MelissaDarling32: well i'm not a virgin either....
MelissaDarling32: but it is alittle different with johns
case
joyota210: really?
MelissaDarling32: i was in a relationship
joyota210: whys that?
MelissaDarling32: andi thought he was the one
joyota210: yeah
MelissaDarling32: john's been with 4 different girls, all
of them were from short relationships that he had....
joyota210: oh really? gotcha! yeah
thats sorta what I have problems
with too
MelissaDarling32: so i mean i couldn't blame him for
what he did, because i did the same, but it was hard to
deal with the number 4
joyota210: yeah, Dawn's been with 4
too
joyota210: and Mark isn't the one that
bothers me the most
MelissaDarling32: who does?
joyota210: Pat
MelissaDarling32: what happened?
joyota210: Well she knew Pat from high
school and they met up again when
she went to state
joyota210: well because of what had
happened with Nick and Mark, Dawn
was almost numb to being physical.
she felt hey I've done it before,
what's so bad about doing it
again? yknow?
MelissaDarling32: ya
joyota210: well he would call her over
to his place whenever he needed a
"study break"
MelissaDarling32: ouch
joyota210: there was no relationship,
they were never dating, he just
used her with no remorse! Didn't
give a shit about how it would
affect her
joyota210: Him and Nick are the two
worst
MelissaDarling32: oh i feel horrible
joyota210: why?
joyota210: for dawn you mean?
MelissaDarling32: because i know how emotionally
attached you get when you have sex with someone, and
to know later that you were being used
joyota210: Plus, when Dawn and I
started dating, he asked her if
they
MelissaDarling32: ouch
MelissaDarling32: yes, i feel horrible for dawn
joyota210: would ever get to have
their study breaks ever agian
MelissaDarling32: oh wow
joyota210: One day when we decided to
go wander around State's campus
Pat asked if he'd get to see her
and she asked me if I would mind
meeting him! I told her not
unless you want me to go to jail
and him to end up dead or severely
injured!
joyota210: Thats how furious the guy
made me! I was not kidding either!
MelissaDarling32: my hardest is his last g/f Marli..it
was a short relastinship within this last year...and she
used him for sex, and she still talks with him and invites
him out and they still talk and see eachother every so
often and it bothers me soo much that i would want to
hurt her!
joyota210: yeah, well! Thats rough for
me too! Mark still sees her and
they still talk. but I try to suck
it up and let her make the
decision.
joyota210: But she does know how I
feel about it
MelissaDarling32: ya..i totally know hwo that is..i
mean i would love to say "don't see her" but i know i
can't and that he needs to make those decisions
joyota210: yeah
MelissaDarling32: it is so great to have someone to
talk to about this
joyota210: well, I'll def. pray for
you in that situation!
joyota210: yeah no kidding!
MelissaDarling32: i'll be praying for you as well
joyota210: I have felt like the only
person on the planet going thru
something like this since we
started dating!
joyota210: Awh thanx!!! :-D
MelissaDarling32: i'm going through it too
MelissaDarling32: i mean i'm not a "good" person,
because i did it too...so i mean john will prolly tlak to you
about this too
joyota210: I know I can and I do talk
to Dawn about all this, but it
upsets her that she's involved
with what happened that makes me
feel like this y'know?
joyota210: Melissa, have you prayed
that God will forgive you for it
and believe he has?
MelissaDarling32: yes
joyota210: well, I just wanted to say
that I try to look at Dawn the
same way that God does. He's
forgiven her for everything,
therefore I try to as well! Thats
just how I've dealt with it!
MelissaDarling32: that's a great way of doing it
joyota210: it works most of the time,
but sometimes I break down and
have a hard time with it! but it
does work when I believe it!
MelissaDarling32: yup and i'm here for you as well..to
talk too...thanks for sharing with me, it really helped to
know that there is someone else out there going throught
his
MelissaDarling32: *this
joyota210: :') I'm happy!
MelissaDarling32: i' glad
joyota210: yeah
MelissaDarling32: heeh i am so glad that i've
reconnected wtih you and dawn, you guys are so
amazing
joyota210: ha ha, I can't believe I
ever thought what I said in my
journal! I musta been smoking
something
joyota210: about you I mean
joyota210: I missed talking with you!
MelissaDarling32: i know!
MelissaDarling32: i found somet hings in a box that
you had given me some print outs..
MelissaDarling32: hehe
joyota210: ha ha, we're havin our own
private convo behind closed doors!
oooh!
joyota210: holy cow! thats awesome!
MelissaDarling32: hheeh
joyota210: what were they that you
found?
joyota210: Thanks for talking with me
Melissa! It felt good talk to
someone about it!
joyota210: *to talk to
MelissaDarling32: tlak to you later
MelissaDarling32: have a great day at work!
joyota210: ok you have a good one too!
buh bye!